Advice About   ♦   Love and Marriage

Marriage Advice: Find Someone a Lot Like You

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Another tip from the Legacy Project elders for those of you looking for Ms. or Mr. Right: Choose someone with whom you share similar values and interests. Read More

Before You Commit, Take a Look at Your Future In-Laws

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Sometimes the elders had a lesson really surprised me. When I asked them about their advice for selecting a future spouse, I didn’t expect to hear this one: Take your partner’s family into consideration! Read More

“Ask Amy” Readers Discuss “30 Lessons” and Marriage

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After the lessons for marriage were featured in the nationally-syndicated column “Ask Amy,” readers began to respond. Today’s column has a great list of lessons for happy married life. Read More

Don’t Rush into Marriage

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The elders in the Legacy Project have a lesson for avoiding regrets: Don’t rush into marriage. They advise waiting until you are really, really certain – and then waiting a little bit more. Read More

Looking for Love? Look Beyond Appearances

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Agnes, 87, tells the story of how she met the love of her life, with a lesson for the rest of us who may be looking. Read More

Jane and Will: A Love Story

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Heading toward Valentine’s Day, this week we’ll share a few stories from the elders about how they fell in love, and what they learned from many decades of marriage. Here’s Marjorie and Will’s story of love and separation during World War II. Read More

Elder Wisdom: Where’s the Sex?

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Over 1000 people. Hundreds of lessons. And no one mentioned sex? A reader raises a great question: Why didn’t the elders’ lessons bring sex into the picture? I’m hoping you have ideas. Read More

Happy Marriage, Happy Children: Advice from Geraldine (New Video!)

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Great tips for a happy marriage and successful child-rearing in this new video with Geraldine, a Legacy Project elder. Read More