Rick, 78, had clear views about child-rearing that may seem traditional to some, but made sense to many of the elders.

As we now observe our grandchildren’s progress, successes,  and problems, we are more convinced than ever that firm family procedural rules are useful. Requiring regular family gatherings without tousled hair, bare feet, bare tops etc. for friendly exchanges and communication can be a crucial benefit to maturity. Having it at a planned, prepared evening meal makes it easy. And, as the years pass by, the regular gatherings with communication become enjoyable habits for all. For a variety of good reasons, our 5 children have been inconsistent in this regard in their own homes. But, we continue to believe that those who have enjoy a superior rapport with one another. It leads to happier lives, which we believe that is what we all seek.